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Good-mannered
“Human is a social being” said one of the most important ancient
Greek scientists.
Human can’t have a healthy mental life being separated from the others.
But we
can’t live into a society without respecting some, otherwise the chaos
would install.
During the whole life people learn these rules to be accepted into
society and
have the ability to relation ate with the others.
Manners
represent a set of conducts and rules that are extremely useful into
society
for human relationships. Maybe one of most important inheritance that
parents
may give to heirs is a set of good-manners that can help children more
than a
bag of money. Parents learn their children how to behave correctly in
order to
be accepted by the others, make friends, make a career, manage for
themselves...briefly,
to act like a human being.
As
an example to emphases the real importance of manners in one’s life is
the true
story of “wolf -children”:” They say that two babies were abandoned in
the forest.
Wolfs found them and brought them up, so children learned wolf’s
behavior. Some
years after, by causality children were found and brought back to the
civilisated world. Unfortunately they never could integrate into
society
because of their behaviour,even though they learn the basic human
behavior. They
couldn’t have a social developpement because of their lack of manners
starting
from the way they ate to the impossibility to have a career.
To
develop as human we need continuously manners. Simple things as eating,
drinking,
playing, and the way of dressing are submitted to manners. Into a
developped
society,if one wants to gain the other’s sympathy must be a
good-mannered person.
As an example, kings were always good-mannered persons so they were
respected by
all the people and liked of most of them. Many times manners helped
them to
avoid conflicts with other countries, conflicts that would have meant
real
problems.
I
think a person good-mannered can easily succeed in life and have a
career
because he/she is liked by the majority, fact that is really important
and useful.
Politicians, as an telling example, are the most mannered people.
Without manners,
in that area of the social life, people would be sooner lost. There are
a lot
of public events that politicians must take part and without knowing
good-manners they could easily get into a disagreeable situation and
their
public image would be seriously damaged. But not only public person
need good-manners,
simple people have to know them because they help them to achieve the
community
respect and appreciation.
As
a conclusion, good-manners is a specific behavior that we learn in
order to be appreciated
and liked by the others and for us to feel more human.
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